I really don't care for my inlaws

Typical right?

My husband isn't super close with his family but they act like they are. I wish I could explain better. Like nobody calls anyone to just see what's up or shoot the breeze or check on anyone. They only call when they need or want something.

I don't come from a family like that so it annoys me. I try to get my husband to interact more or differently with them but it's been that way his whole life. It doesn't help that my MIL is super manipulative and likes a good guilt trip.

Any suggestions what I can do to change my mind about them? Married 3 years.